Serving SoCal
The distance is growing wider
You have felt disconnected from your partner for a while now, and you know they feel it too. When you try to share your feelings and concerns about your relationship, they appear withdrawn and detached from you and the conversation. It feels like you both are stuck but you still hope for things to get better on their own.Neither of you can remember the last time you laughed together or had sex. The focus of your time and energy has shifted completely onto the children, giving negligible thoughts to your relationship. Even the children are conscious of the tension and discomfort in the atmosphere. You are clueless about what to do anymore asyour partner is constantly pulling away making you even more anxious.
Work with Lily Desir, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who is passionate about helping you heal and grow your relationships.
If you and your partner are ready to stop hurting one another and foster the meaningful relationship you want, I am here to help. Reach out and schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation to find out more about online couples therapy Los Angeles, Therapy San Diego or anywhere else in California.
You wonder if they still love you and whether your relationship will survive
You are still very much in love with your partner and the thought of separation scares you which at times lends itself to explosive arguments. You want to discussthe things going on but you both are past the point of having a meaningful conversation. They’ve shared how the fear of being attacked and criticized by you holds them back from having an actual conversation while they leave you with the feeling of being unappreciated and unloved. The one thing that seems certain is that you both need help to stop hurting one another.
You want a couple’s therapist who can understand and knows how to help
I am passionate about helping couples who feel disconnected and distant, foster a new connection while healing old wounds or emotional injuries that are threatening their relationship. Working with me feels like having someone who understands the value your relationship or marriage holds to you, the sacrifices you’ve made, and your willingness to do everything that is humanly possible to make IT work. You will eventually realize that things are getting better once you start expressing your thoughts without feeling judged or criticized. You will feel understood and supported by your partner, and most of all, you will feel appreciated, loved, and seen.
Couple therapists providing online therapy to couples throughout California. Specializing in helping couples who are disconnected and in crisis. Helping couples move beyond communication barriers to achieve greater intimacy throughout California – Serving SoCal: Los Angeles, Santa Barbara, Ventura, San Bernardino, and San Diego, and everywhere else in California.