Serving the Valley
IN-PERSON & ONLINE MARRIAGE THERAPY
What is happening to your relationship?
What happened to your relationship? You are at a loss. You’re hoping for things to get better and believe this phase to be just another rough patch. But at the core of it all, you miss talking to your best friend, sharing and reveling in each other’s crazy world. You long to feel that special connection once again that you never felt with anyone else. But the more you try to pull them closer, the more distant they feel.
Work with Lily Desir, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who is passionate about helping you heal and grow your relationships.
If you’re ready to heal and create the meaningful relationship you want, I am here to help. Reach out and schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation to find out more about online couples in-person therapy Clovis and therapy Fresno or anywhere else in Central Valley.
Moving further apart
You cannot remember the last time you both went on a couple’s vacation or even a date night. It is starting to feel like you are both leading separate lives and only coming together when surrounded by your children. Your efforts to communicate to your partner about your feelings are met with cold indifference. You don’t recall the last time you had an intimate and meaningful conversation, let alone sex. You are aware that you can’t continue with the way things are and are ready to take action. You want to continue to fight for your relationship and are open to seeking external help.
But you wonder, can a stranger really help
I help couples create a better connection, create a new vision, and foster growth in their relationship. With increased positive interactions happening in your relationship, there will be more efforts to express appreciation and love to each other. What therapy will ask of you is a willingness to explore, be open to change, listen, and own your “stuff” in order to take full responsibility for your part and for personal changes in the future. This will permit you greater freedom and agency in your life and your relationship because the days of blaming, attacking, self-protection, and self-preservation will no longer plague you. So, yes, a stranger can help if you and your partner are willing to change for the better.
Couple therapists providing online therapy and In-office Therapy to couples throughout The Valley. Specializing in helping couples who are disconnected and in crisis. Helping couples move beyond communication barriers to achieve greater intimacy throughout California – The Valley: Sacramento, Merced, Stockton, Fresno, Clovis, Visalia, Bakersfield, and everywhere else in California